Yet recruiters and hiring managers say many unemployed candidates blow the opportunity by appearing desperate or bitter about their situations -- often without realizing it.

• 但是不少招聘官和人事经理反映，很多失业的应聘者对于自己的处境所表现出的绝望或痛苦毁掉了他们的机会。而他们常常意识不到这一点。