The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself. --- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray.

• 摆脱诱惑的唯一办法就是屈服于它。一味抗拒，因为渴求被禁止的事物，你的心灵就会大有麻烦。苦苦拒绝一种诱惑或者欲望，往往反而说明将它看得太重了。所谓“酒肉穿肠过”，正是比禁欲更高深的修为方法。