Rather than admit defeat passive tolerance, but to give up a pro-active, when you give up the heated rhetoric, impulsive behavior and desire for revenge, you are tolerant people.

• 宽容不是被动的认输，而是一种主动的放弃，当你放弃那些激烈的言辞、冲动的举止和报复的渴望时，你才是宽容的人。