In an excerpt from the book, De Becker tells the true story of a young woman who allows a nice looking, friendly young man to help bring some heavy bags of groceries to her apartment door.

• 在一本书的摘录中，狄贝克告诉了我们一个真实的故事：一个年轻的女子允许一位相貌英俊，看起来友好的年轻男子帮她扛几袋重的杂货到她的公寓门口。