If you have a boss, a roommate, or (heaven help you) a parent with full-blown narcissistic personality disorder, your attempts to develop healthy self-esteem will be severely challenged.

• 如果你的老板、室友，或者（老天保佑你）一位家长具有全面型自恋个性紊乱，那么你要培养健康自尊心的努力也许会遇到很大问题。