Iam merely pointing out that others are asking them by implicationand that this is what you are now feeling inclined to ask yourself.Something is baffling, bothering and bugging you.

• 我并非让你回答上述问题，我仅仅是指出你现在的境遇而已---被别人含沙射影的询问着却又不得不承认自己也在反思着这些问题。