I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to gratify my own needs.

• 我能够允许并鼓励你独立自主，保持你的特性，这样我就不会把你当作一件东西来对待，不会让你把主要精力用来满足我自己的需要。