Enjoying them. Do things with your kids, not just for them.Tell them over and over how important they are to you and how much they please you.

• 欣赏他们。和孩子们一起做一些事情，不要把一切都为他们做好。反复告诉他们，他们对你的重要性以及他们给你带来了多大的快乐。