Confused: I think that one might want to know how much his love loves him back, it not necessary wanting reciprocation but rather how much impact and a differeve did his efforts caused.

• 惑儒：我觉得，一个人会想知道对方有多爱自己，也不见得是想求回报，而是想知道自己的付出到底对对方有多少影响，让对方得到多少快乐？