And in those rare instances where is no ulterior motive, we are so taken aback that we may failed to recognize a truth that a loving friends has just done us an enormous favor.

• 当那些近在咫尺的距离让我们不再别有用心的时候，我们才会吃惊地发现我们忽视了一个实事：一个亲爱的朋友刚刚帮了我们一个大忙。