A lack of response to dependence needs,poor nutrition,brutality,unhappy relationships,disease,continuing disappointments,inadequate physical care,and traumatic events are among the many experiences that contribute to making people losers.

• 造成人们失败的许多经历包括：缺少帮助、营养不良、残忍行为、不愉快的关系、痛苦的疾病、接二连三的失望、对身体爱护不够、痛苦而难忘的事件等等。